No Improvement means deterioration?

As we do not continue our study and search for new information and insights to news and technology or the things around us, are we becoming lousier, deproving and more useless? For those who have worked for a few years and has the reluctancy to change, do you feel that you getting out of touch with many things around us? Like Softwares, handphones, the people, the mindsets. Seems that the society start to move faster and faster, trying to outwin every other countries to become the best, making things change rapidly and soon enough you dont even recognise Singapore as your hometown as the blueprint itself have changed.

The thing behind this blog is, can we really settle down and relax, not be bothered by the things around us and be in our own world? I really like to, i have tried it and till date its almost a year, It really seems that things has changed so much and the world is no longer what you perceived to be. And though you may be intelligent a year ago, it now seems that you are stupid, cant use a simple handphone, or your new software in your laptop. So does it really happening, no improvement means deterioration? if it really does, it only means that as we try to gain more knowledge and becoming better, we are actually indifferent from our peers around us. It just like playing games, competing with your peers, as you increase in strengths and power, your peers as well, you still dont get absolute power over them. So in all we are still the same.

So does improvement means getting better or just staying on the spot?

Power of Adaptation, self sufficient

Have you ever wonder how can someone live in really poor condition and live with $3 a day? And how the rich can spent tens of thousands a day in shopping? Thats the power of adaptation. Human beings has the power to adapt to the lifestyle that they are in and becomes part of their life, though we dont change our colours like chameleon, but are able to suit in sudden different environment rapidly. Eg, Does your accent changes when you go to a foreign country and try to speak like a local? When we are stranded in a jungle, will we have the ability to adapt and get out of the jungle? And thats the power of adaption.

The meaning self sufficient, there is no point to be rich, as you will adapt to spend like a rich and you are significantly indifferent. People buys a normal handbag and you buys a LV, technically speaking you are both happy, as you have a bag. So self sufficient is important in order to be happy about your current lifestyle. If you earn 10k a month, you buys a BMW, while someone earns 3k a month and buys a Mazda, is the rich spending a lot more for the basic need of travel? though he does feel better but overall they are indifferent as both has the transport.

So why worry about everything when you have everything? Lets enjoy our lifes and enjoy being who you are. It is important to be happy, to have friends companion and the luxury of your family support.

To end with a twist, Life's short enjoy while you can. And Life's long when you are always in misery.

Disclaimer: i am not trying to demotivate you in your career path but do stop to enjoy to appreciate the things around you and the things you have.

The power of Waiting

Waiting, is so boring and tedious. Wasting time and effort. but the power of waiting there. Why?

Firstly, as you wait to get what you want, the time and effort taken increases, the more you will appreciate the thing that you waited for. Why? because you put in effort.

Secondly, whats more to be involved in the process than getting the product. sometimes, when we buy things we are just satisfying the want. how often you will play with the things that you buy for very long, most times you play a while, get used to it and forget about it. So with more involvement in the buying process and waiting process, will it eventually make the product more interesting? like doing more research and all..

Lastly, wait let you think what you really want. Let you think what is really in for you and since waiting is such a cool process, lets wait while we slowly moves towards the goal.

All above are nonsense to what i wanted to say, what i want to say below is what i wanted to convey.

Assumption: you are someone with decent and stable income.

Have you ever wonder why the things that you want to buy always dont come and as time pass you felt that you already have it. Like you wanted a house, you waited for 10 years and finally you got your house. Like you wanted a car, you strive hard and within 2 years you got a car. All these has timeline and all about waiting. Our goals on expenses are always things that we cant really afford on our current timeframe, but as time goes as your savings increase you start to feel that you can afford it. so thats the power of wait.

The Law of attraction always seems to describe that as your mind power set to do it and have a goal you will eventually get it. But Jacer's law of waiting is no matter what you want as long as you strive hard and wait long enough, your saving will get you there. So just be where you are, and soon you will be able to purchase your dream flat or car.

LAME but ITS True. So don get conned by MLM, Motivation talks, cause the end point about Law of Attraction is Still the The Power of Wait. You still need time to get to it.

Hope

Whats life after death? Is there recarnation? Is there gods? Is there ghosts? Why are there many people believes in this? If there is really recarnation? How come the human population keeps increasing? Does animals recarnate to become humans? So much uncertainty.

So are we simply superstitious or the self declared most intelligent species are simply naïve into this unfound science. As our knowledge increase we feels that such things are purely a myth, but most of all still believes in it. Why? Is it because we are stupid? Or just to try to put our faith into something and for the hope of something.

To me, such faith and hope has been transformed by many genius into great business strategies. Just look at the products in the market and the strategies, how many are just selling hope? For example, MLM – the hope to earn passive income, the hope that health supplements can help one youthful, Insurance and investments – the hope that money grows money. All these products are simply placed to fulfil the desire of hope and wishes as one is willing to part their hard earned money for these hopes.

Dreams and Life

Is it important to fulfil your dreams? or is dreams are just dreams? Recently i trying to fulfil my dream, buying a house. And so after much calculations and many people involved in the process, i decided to get out of my dreams and stay real.

Dreams are always dreams, yes, you become more satisfied when you fulfil your dreams but you equally become more tired when you tries to fulfil the dream. And even you fulfil this dream, more dreams will come for you to fulfil, some big some small. So what should we do?

When you jump out of the box and stay real, is it a need or a want? is it neccessary to do so or do something better? Sometimes, one is always in a dilemma when coming to fulfilling dreams, and settle with the next best alternative before you are torn apart by your responsibilities and your dream goals.

For example, you wish to buy a Mazda RX 8, your dream car, but due to responsibility and family reasons you settled down with Mazda 3 SP, well, you do fulfil your dream of getting a car but though not the one you really like but you still more satisfied since you got yourself a car. So thats the human science behind it. And so you move on to the other dream you have.

In conclusion, one will never be satisfied till you stop your dreams, so i decided to stay REAL and stop dreaming, though it is always good to have your own HOUSE, but it will always be better to know yourself better.

THANKS FOR THOSE WHO HELPED ME IN THE PROCESS OF FULFILING MY DREAMS, REALLY APPRECIATED YOUR CONCERN.

Is your life predestined?

Many times, people say you choose what you choose. You become what you wish to become. But do you really want to do things that you really want? Is your life predestined or you designed? Is the job you having now is you choose or you have better one in mind? is the girl beside you chosen by you or just the next best alternative?

Life is always a mystery. People go to see fortune teller, tarot cards, temples for directions, but is life really predestined? or are we just following a story that has long been written? No one knows.

Actually i wanted to blog on succession. Our PM Lee was then PM Lee Son, and the guy selling nasi lemak is the son of the nasi lemak legend. So are we just following things that we are supposed to do? Is our PM Lee really want to be PM or just because his dad says so or the environment caused it so? Is the job you have now is you what you want to do or just that your family has connections into it. Sometimes it really wonder if you are not somehow related you never get a chance to be in it. If you are a bookworm, its really hard for you to be a gangster. and if you are really introvert how do you be extrovert? So if Mr Lee is not PM son you think he got a chance to be PM? so i don know how life is really predestined or self designed.

And so, fathers who work for others will have sons who work for others. And fathers who are bosses will have sons who boss arounds too. So that is the cycle. it may not be true but Law of Large Numbers do apply.

So is this what you want or there is really no way to change?

LIVE ONCE!!

Have you heard this before? “We only live life once”, “live life to the fullest”, but what I have impact most is “you only live unless you live it”. So life short, don’t get all those logic over you. Sometimes its good to run by emotions. At least you wont regret after that.


Have you ever marveled by the adventures that others have? Have you ever wish that you want to try those things that others did? Or do you regret after deciding not to try? Its easy to blog but how easy to really let go of your original self and do something that others doesn’t suit you? Well, if there is no tomorrow, may be you will. If life is really short, don’t let your logic get over you. We have learnt to think in a logical way, but being illogical, makes you emotional. And emotional mostly adventurous. Doing things that is dangerous, reckless driving, kissing someone who you have a crush on, doing things that others scared. All these emotional actions makes one adventurous.

If you still complain about a plain life, then get adventurous or emotional. REMEMBER YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE. AND YOU ONLY LIVE WHEN YOU LIVE IT.