Emotions to goal setting

Do you have goals? do you know what you wan to accomplish? do you like what you want to do? Do you have expectations for yourself or your other half?

Goal setting books say we have to set goals and work towards them. Goals help us to get a direction and we will be able to locate the direction in life. but is the goal you really want? When you set goal towards something, is it what you really want? will you lose out something when you are trying to achieve it? Will there be any other opportunity cost like friends, relationships, love, family or money when you achieve your goal?

When you set your goal and unable to achieve it, how you feel? your emotions? sad? anxiety? frustrated? irritated? upset? happy? sense of satisfaction? finally? whats next? so is goal setting helpful? Creating so many emotional cues where some people don understand why i feel like that and feels i simply naive. BUT I REALLY COMMITTED TO THE GOAL, well, so lets contrast.. as we get more wealthier, lifestyle gets better, our goals changes.. we constantly set higher goals for us to go. and One day, when we look back we are actually indifferent. though we are better off, but we lose out on others. So thats life... ALWAYS WORK AROUND WITH LIMITED RESOURCES.