today, i encountered a small complaint from a girl about her husband. It seems tat the guy is having some affairs outside their relationship. The girl is complaining and complaining another girl. So Whats the problem? Is there still love? Is the so called love just turned into purely responsibility since they signed the papers and promised to take care of family. Its only up to the ones involved to understand.
As i was thinking of the reasons of happening. it suddenly strikes me that, at the point of signing the marriage certificate, both are young, girl is pretty and cute, guy is handsome and fit. and now, the both have white hairs, both have tummy. So is there a breach of contract as the initial person you are engaged to do not look exactly the same anymore. So whos fault is it? Sorry to the girls out there, but this is the guys perspective. "女人变形，男人变心。" So is it the guys fault? When the shoes is old you throw away, when the flowers has withered you throw away. In this cosmopolitian Country, one often has too many choices, so whos fault is that? Old mindset of marriage fix lifetime seems dont work anymore. there is a saying "有孩子可以打掉，有老婆可以离婚，女朋友算什么" 。So what is your opinion?
In conclusion, just think back the time you are together, how do you treat each other? is it the same as now? is there more negotiation than just purely love? is there money involve? If simply we take each other for granted since then, who's to blame for the current situation.
Advise to the gals, please maintain your physique. It is seriously important if you want your husband to be proud of you.
Advise to the guys, please maintain your pocket. It is seriously important if you want your wife to be proud of you.
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