Relationship comes with proximity

When you are in an relationship, isnt it the same as going to buy grocery? will you always travel to Jurong IMM to purchase your grocery when you stay in Pasir Ris? So i start this blog on Relationship comes with proximity. It seems that proximity is seriously important in whereever we are. Maybe it is just instinct that we are born lazy, as we follow the shortest route and time. So What got it to do with relationship.

By statistic from your friends, how often does Long Distance Relationship (LDR) successful? Staying online all day to hope that you can see her? Hogging on the phone just to find that part of your salary goes to Singtel? Soon enough one will be tired and when especially you are down, the only one who are there to support you are your friends, not the one you love. So proximity seems to be seriously important in a relationship. Well thats LDR.

What about when east meets the west? how long can you take it to travel 1 hour up and 1 hour down everyday, 7 days a week and 365 days a year. Thats is 730 hours a year and full 30 days in total gone in travelling just to meet your love. can you take it? From your friends, how many succeed in enduring such travelling hours? and how many actually succeed? will they start to look for someone nearer or when they are free, will they meet up with people nearer to them or are they going to spend quality time with the bus driver? So the next alternative buy a car. So it becomes 20mins up and 20mins down everyday, 7 days a week and 365 days a year. And so time spend on the road becomes 240hours a year and 10 full days travelling. Well thats a great reduction and so you can sustain longer.

But comes the wonderful part of salary gone to MOBIL, where we are drivers too. So we drive, we spend and you find that monthly car bills goes up to $250 a month and service more frequently than ever and soon, other dreams you wish to fulfil has been used to fuel your love. So is it worth it? Yes it is, depends on the time spend together and the things to do together. But The stress is there. Just think that you are suddenly uptight with your workload and you have a deadline to meet, and your pocket suddenly becomes shallower than ever, what will happen???

SO ONLY THE FITTEST WINS THE RACE, SO NO MONEY NO HONEY, AND GOT HONEY, YOU SURE LOSE MONEY.